The following messages of condolence and symbols
have been added in memory of Neil.

Dear Carey, Jack and Harry.

Sending our deepest condolences after the passing of Neil.

He was a wonderful volunteer coach and a passionate member of our club / community and we know that he loved watching the boys play.

He will be missed deeply by many. Keeping you all in our thoughts and prayers.

Wishing you peace and comfort.
The Committee Members of the Richmond Riots Basketball Club

To Carey, boys, Dunc, Lochie, Stew, Mama and Papa Mallet,
Sending lots of love and condolences. Whilst I havent seen Neil for years, watching this service and seeing the old videos brought him back larger than life as if it was only yesterday. Neil was a great Mojo-ian and mate. I am so happy to see what a wonderful life and love he went to have in Melbourne. He supported me in my career, on the nettie court and at the bar with his love of Kris Kristoffersen - I too had a dad who played KK my whole life, so I had a singing partner. When neil laughed really hard (usually at Brice) I've never known somebody to nearly expire laughing like him, he brought everybody else along with him. He was one of the biggest hearted people I ever met. Gone but never forgotten, our Sledge. Lots of Love, Jo

Thank you for your friendship in the later years of high school. My life has been richer due to the many experiences and adventures that we shared (and I still proudly wear the physical scars as a reminder of our time together 😃😃).

My thoughts are with Carey, Jack and Harry as they now negotiate and live life without Neil, drawing on the many wonderful memories they share.

Carey Jack & Harry
Neil was such a vibrant character and intellect and his love and passion for you three seemed obvious in his every interaction.
Sincerest condolences.
Denise, Jeremy, Zac & Eli

Neil, you were my big brother and everything that entails. It is hard to find the words to express just how important you have been in my life. I still can’t believe this has occurred, for so long I have pretended that this isn’t happening, both as a coping mechanism, and also, in a childish way believing that if I didn’t acknowledge it, it would cease to exist. When I have acknowledged it, I believed that your strength of character and sheer bloody mindedness would ensure you would prevail.

The whole family has always been so very very proud of you and your many achievements. It is something we rarely expressed out loud. It was something quietly known to all of us. You set the bar high on what could be achieved and we all tried to follow suit. Your success with family, friends, career and sport were a shining display of who you are. Although much too short, I think everyone would agree it was a life well lived, and take some comfort in that.

For all of your bluff and bluster, you were a big softie at heart. The first to cry at any emotional family event or life milestone. You were also the chief family hugger and those hugs were always heartfelt, sincere and given with maximum warmth. I’m going to need a Neil hug on Tuesday, but given the circumstances, may have to try my best to give them instead. Perhaps “Neil hugs” will become a family thing in the future, to make sure we don’t forget.

I have desperately tried to find a silver lining in all of this. I am so pleased you met Carey when you did and were gifted with Jack and Harry, two fine, healthy sons. A physical reflection of you, left behind for all of us. I look forward to seeing the men they become.

I am hoping your friends, tell me some funny stories about you, to allay the grief, even if only for a short time. You always enjoyed a drink and a laugh, so I don’t think you would mind. Love you big fella.

Duncan

To Jack, Carey and family - we are so saddened to hear about Neil’s passing. We will miss his passion, cheers and chats on the touchline. Sending you all our love during this sad time.

Lachlan, Lee, Sheree and Cameron

Sending so much love to you, Carey, Jack and Harry at this terribly sad time.

Carey, we were so incredibly saddened to hear of Neil’s passing. So, so grateful that we got to know him during lockdown. Many conversations in the street and grateful gardening tips! We are thinking of you and the boys and sending you much love and strength. X

Dear Carey I am so very, very sorry for your loss. I have such fond memories of your Neil stories - of his creative spark questing for new music “finds”, his zest for his clients, and of course his lucky boots. You and your sweet boys are in my thoughts. I am sending love to you and all your community at this achingly sad time.

Rest in peace beautiful soul. My sincere condolences to Carey, Jack and Harry.

My sincere condolences to Carey, Jack and Harry. Such sad news.

Belinda and I are very saddened by Neil’s passing and we send our love and thoughts to Neil’s family and the entire Mallet clan, particularly to our beautiful Aunty Jane.

Dear Carey, Jack and Harry - sending you our deepest sympathy. Neil was a rare force of nature - warm, generous and courageous. Carry his lantern with pride. We will miss his booming, friendly shoutouts at unexpected moments throughout the neighbourhood.
With our very best wishes at this sad time,
Sammy, Anna, Kate and Chris

Sending all our love to you all. Neil will live in your hearts forever - a gentle giant with a big heart and a wonderful sense of humour. You will be feeling his loss acutely at the moment, and he will be with you every step of the way, urging you to embrace life, be kind and show up.
A magnificent father, husband, friend.
RIP Neil Mallet

Dear Carey Jack and Harry
Our deepest condolences to you during this very sad time. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. May you be strengthened by the love and memories you shared with your loved one
With deepest sympathy
Fazzino Family
( Max Fazzino)

Our sincere condolences Carey, Jack and Harry. We are so sad to hear about the loss of Neil - such a lovely man. Wishing you comfort and courage at this difficult time.

mate - legend - you will be missed Ash

Dear Jack, Carey and family, please accept our deepest condolences for your sad loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. May Neil rest in peace.

To Carey, Jack & Harry
Sending you our deepest condolences. May all the beautiful memories together bring you comfort during this difficult time. Neil was a wonderful man that will be sorely missed by many within our soccer family.
May he Rest Peace

To Carey, Jack, and family

Sincere condolences to you all, this is such sad news. Neil was a brilliant man who showed so much love and support to the family, and particularly to Jack during his games with Port Sharks.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this sad time.

May he rest in peace

Dear Mallet Family.
On behalf of Jack's football team at Port Melbourne and myself, I'd like to express our sincere condolences to you all.
May Neil rest in piece and you guys be strong in this difficult moment.

Sending my dearest condolences, was very sad to read this just now. Sending my love to his two gorgeous, handsome boys Jack, Harry and Carey. I worked with Neil for a short time at Marmalade and liked him very very much. Whenever I would leave the office at the end of the day at 6:00 he’d yell out “working a half day today are you?” Used to drive me mad ha!!! He had a big beautiful heart and will be so missed by you all 🥹 Tash

Many years ago, Neil took a punt on this weird, skinny kid from WA and gave him his first job in advertising. Since then I've built a career spanning 20 years and two continents. I often think of what life would have been like had be not taken a chance on me, because it has been a pretty great ride ever since. So, thank you Neil for giving me my start. Rest in peace, and condolences to your family and loved ones.

Dear Carey, Jack + Harry,
This is such sad news, I had to do a double take. Thanks for taking the time to post on FB. Extra hugs to you all from Singapore. Ling xxxx

Dear Carey Jack & Harry
Our deepest condolences at this very sad time …. You are in our prayers & thoughts - treasure your beautiful memories of Neil
Love Sue Paul Charles Will & JP Doman 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

To Carey, Jack and Harry this is such sad news. My love to you all and I send you all such love and lightness your way. Neil was a mountain of a man. I loved our chats about 70's and 80's alternative post punk music. Our love of the Smiths was always a topic of choice. Forever when I will hear the track, How Soon is Now, I shall remember you dear Neil. Love to all❤️.

Dear Carey, Jack and Harry
My deepest sympathy at this sad time and my thoughts are with you .
I really enjoyed my friendship over the years with Neil and you Carey and the boys

Condolences to everyone down there
Sad day for everyone

Dear Carey, Jack and Harry,
On behalf of the Mutch family sending our condolences to you all at this very sad time.
Neil’s enthusiasm and passion for sport and wine will be missed along with his friendship.

Carey and family. Judy and I send out heartfelt condolences to you all.