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Tyler on 15 April, 2024 at 10:46am

She was my teacher all of my friends loved her condolences to her passing

Sharny (Smiley) Connell on 7 April, 2024 at 12:09pm

Ms Smiles, to hear that the world lost such a bright light, broke my heart. You were one of the first teachers I met at SBC in my first year of high school and you impacted me immensely. From very early on you called me “Smiley” and then came you being referred to as “Ms Smiles” (which we know wasn’t always true haha!). You had a beautiful, outgoing, wild, genuine, sarcastic and caring personality. You brought out the best in everyone and pushed people out of their comfort zone to show them their potential, although that resulted in a lot of “why” and “stop”, you never gave up and were there with love and encouragement until the pushing was worth it. You were very missed when you left SBC and you will be very missed by the world that you made a better place. I wrote a letter for you the day you left, and you reached out to me a few years ago telling me you had found it and it had made your day reading my words. I told you that I was studying teaching and you told me that I was born to inspire others. I have almost finished my bachelor and I’m ready to inspire others like you inspired me and so many around you. You were an extraordinary human and you are already so missed. Keep shining your light in heaven like I know you will, Ms Smiles. Keep a watch over everyone down here, especially your loved ones. Heaven is a better place with her there. You will never ever be forgotten. X

Angela Beard on 5 April, 2024 at 11:25am

Sue …you were one of a kind and I don't think I will ever have a friendship like what we had again. My sadness loosing you is overwhelming.

We just understood each other. My life was instantly better when we met. Sue had a loyal and fiercely loving heart. Family meant everything to her. She adored Eric and the many adventures and plans they shared 🗺️

The fact that Jamie and our four children are so upset just goes to show what an impact Sue had. And that we all looked forward to spending time together!

I guess we took it for granted that Sue would get well, she was a fighter after all and had a determined, strong spirit. I took for granted that we would have more times together...we were looking forward to taking Sue and her family out in our stink boat and even overnight!

We were hoping we could lure Arlie & Sonny to move to Queensland and enjoyed sharing stories and photos of our children talking about work and life in general.

I'm so grateful that Sue & Eric came to visit our new house in January and we celebrated her 63rd birthday together. 💓
I’m certain Sue is now our guardian angel that will look out for us all. I have felt it already.

Jenny Fasso on 5 April, 2024 at 7:05am

We had fun togeather Sue, we were naughty but we both loved every minute of it, evan the phone calls, laughs, plans for our kids (haha) and our secret chats will cherish them forever, buggar we didn't get too see each other before your passing, but don't worry we will see each other one day soon. Both Bree and James very sad to hear your news, they both remember you as a fun caring and loveing person, love you will miss you Jen x

Gaylene Gravestocks on 4 April, 2024 at 7:50pm

I was so shocked and my heart broke when told of your sudden passing. I could not believe it, Sue (Flea) you were taken too soon.
I have known Flea since 1973 when we were in Form 1 at Hamilton College. You were so clever and talented and loved by everyone.
I was so pleased you rang me not long ago for our wonderful chat and we were going to catch up soon as l now live in Brisbane. You were so proud of your children and loved them very much. Unfortunately I cannot be there Friday but will be there in spirit.
You will be sadly missed, by heart goes out to Eric and family at this sad time.
Rest in Peace Flea

Rosalind Deacon on 4 April, 2024 at 3:46pm

It is with much sadness that I write this note to express my condolences to your whole family. I have such happy childhood memories spent with all the Brooks over many years as we grew up. Easter was always fun having adventures together. Whether on the river at Benjeroop, at the farm near Mansfield, or in Hamilton, our two families did much together as dad and Uncle Rex were great school friends and mum and Auntie Del were there keeping us fed and in line! Sue, I remember Uncle Rex called you Blues and us girls were always lass. I can’t remember what the boys were called but we were a great gang of kids having fun outdoors. Your voice and laugh with a cheeky smile and those gorgeous eyes is what springs to mind so readily today. I am sorry I cannot join your family in person for your farewell on Friday, but am glad l can join online.
With much love to your whole family from the Deacon clan

Phil Hopkins on 4 April, 2024 at 12:44pm

My daughters, Holly and Sarah Hopkins both had the pleasure of being in a house group room with Ms Miles during their time at Brisbane Girls Grammar School while I was a staff member at the school and also interacted regularly with Susan. They both have very fond memories of the kind, caring and mother-like figure that Susan was to them during their years at high school. Our condolences are with your family.

David Thompson on 3 April, 2024 at 7:58pm

Debra and I are shocked to hear of your untimely passing. You shone brightly individually and in partnership with Eric created an admirable familial unit. Your spirit will no doubt live on in your children. Rest in Peace.

Deanne Frischkorn on 3 April, 2024 at 6:51pm

So sad to hear of your passing. The laughs we shared at work will never be forgotten and it got us through many tough days. Thinking of your family xx

Kerri Grimes on 2 April, 2024 at 9:49pm

I was shocked and saddened by the passing of such a strong and energetic woman Ms Miles. She made our workplace a better place and we will miss her sense of humour and support.
To Susan, I promise I will keep your secret that you were a PE Teacher safe! Condolences to the family. Love Kerri (Coorparoo SC)

Anne Halsall on 2 April, 2024 at 8:51pm

Sue “Soi”
So saddened by the loss of such a beautiful lady.I am grateful for all the fun times we had together-Friday night gatherings, sporting events, netball games, weekends away.Your bright smile lit up any occasion.Our phone calls filled with laughter.I am sorry I won’t be there for your farewell as I have a family wedding on Friday.Heartfelt sympathy to Eric, Jack, Angus, Arlie & extended family -she loved you all soo much.She was so proud of her children.
Rest in peace dear friend
Anne & all the Halsall’s❤️❤️

Sandra McKelvie on 2 April, 2024 at 3:12pm

Sue Soi
I was shocked and so saddened to hear of your sudden passing. I am thankful that we enjoyed a phone catch-up recently - I can still hear you saying 'Hello Sondra' - I will remember that fondly, as I will, your beautiful, bright, friendly smile. I have terrific memories of the great moments we had together. I am sorry that I will be interstate this Friday and unable to attend the funeral, please know I will be thinking of you at this difficult time. On behalf of all the McKelvies, we send heartfelt sympathies to Eric, Jack, Angus, Arlie and extended family during this sad time.
Cheers Sue love Sondra

Alanna DITTERICH on 1 April, 2024 at 8:10pm

Our darling friend Sue.
The fabulous memories we all shared with our families in Swan Hill.
Camping, canoeing, playing sport, Tech school BBQs and functions, great friends and football.
Time spent in Brisbane with you and Eric. Forever cherished.
Our phone calls filled with laughter , so sadly missed.
Rest peacefully Susan .
Our heartfelt condolences to Jack, Angus,Arlie
Eric, Lynne and Mark

Our love to all
Alanna, Carl, Ben,Cale, Ethan and Britt DITTERICH

Fiona Royle on 1 April, 2024 at 5:49pm

Finding the words is impossible to do when you're endeavouring to leave a tribute. I met Sue/ Flea in 1975 when I went to boarding school in Hamilton. She was smart, sporty and put everything she had into whatever she was tackling. We've kept in contact since then and I was looking forward to catching up in person again later this year with her and Eric. I can't be there Friday, but I will be in spirit. My heartfelt sympathy goes out to her children, family, friends and to Eric who was her rock. Rest easy Flea xxx

Liz Spong on 1 April, 2024 at 10:35am

Sending all my love to Eric, Jack, Angus and Arlie.

There really aren't any words to adequately express my shock and sadness at the loss of Sue. It really is so impossible to believe.

Such a dedicated mum who loved her children with all her heart and was always so very proud of them.

Many fun memories of the early years in Swan Hill and of our Friday nights with the girls singing along to Jimmy Barnes music..

We always called each other Martha and I remember how we laughed when you moved to Mt Martha!!

Rest In Peace Martha, you will live on in your beautiful children..❤️

Virginia Allen on 31 March, 2024 at 10:29pm

So sad to hear about Sue and send all our love to Jack, Angus and Arlie & extended family. Lifelong friends through our fathers Rex and Keith and so many happy memories of family holidays, Hamilton and later Swan Hill together. Rest in peace Susie xxx

Mark Vines on 31 March, 2024 at 11:41am

A wonderful lady. Life long friend of the family. We had some wonderful trips together with both families. Great memories.
Sue and Jill were inseparable with lots of laughs, tears and joy. Now you can catch up once again with Jill.
We will all miss you Sue. Your legacy will always remain through your three children.
Our deepest condolences to Angus, Jack, Arlie and Eric.
All our love
The Vines Family

Denise Thamrin on 30 March, 2024 at 5:02pm

To all of Sue’s loved ones.
I wish to express my deepest sympathy and sorrow, at the terrible shock, loss and sudden passing of Sue. My most sincere condolences to all the family, and those she loved and was loved by. May she live on forever in your hearts.
Denise

Helen Lavallin on 30 March, 2024 at 11:34am

Shattered at the news of Sue’s passing and devastated at being overseas and missing saying goodbye at her funeral, please know that I will be thinking of you all at this incredibly sad time.
I will miss Sue’s exuberance for life, fun and her companionship since she joined us all in Mount Martha. Even when she found her love in Eric and moved to Brisbane, that goofy but endearing Heli Lavalli on a phone call and the clink of a glass when we came together was a joyous part of my life.
Sue’s sheer love, pride and devotion to her children Jack, Ang and Arlie was a pleasure to witness and a true attestation of the person she was.
My very sincere and heartfelt condolences to Eric, Arlie, Jack, Angus and her family for the loss of such a wonderful partner, mother, sister and Aunt and for all those who’s life she touched and enhanced.
I am so grateful for the fabulous memories I have of her sharing her life with my family, myself and our mutual friends.
Sue will be immeasurably missed and I hope she rests in peace knowing how much she was loved and appreciated.
Forever in my heart ❤️

Kim Rienecker on 29 March, 2024 at 1:43pm

My heart reaches out to Eric, Angus, Jack, Arlie, and all of Sue’s family and friends. My deepest condolences go to all of you. The shock and pain you are bearing must be intolerable. Losing a person as warm, kind, loving and thoughtful as Sue is impossible to accept.

I first met Sue 11 years ago as we both embarked upon a new adventure at St Benedict’s College (or ‘Mango’ as we fondly called it) and I knew very quickly that we would become good friends. She carried no hidden agendas and her positive warm energy was captivating. Her love for her family, Eric, and life in general, was empowering. There were no conversations with Sue without us having a good chuckle. For us, it was often related to the crazy nuances of the religious traditions in the school where we worked. Many of which Sue could not understand. Her innocent interpretations and bewilderment often had the whole staff smiling.

I can still picture the devastation on everyone’s faces when she announced to the staff that she was leaving SBC for a new job at Brisbane Girls Grammar. I truly missed her fun-loving ways at ‘Mango’, but we kept our friendship well and truly rolling with regular chats about The Bold and the Beautiful, and face-to-face catch ups on the Sunshine Coast or in Brisbane whenever possible. I also got to know Eric and meet her 3 beautiful children who she loved dearly and was so proud of.

Sue, I always pictured us having fun as we grew old together. Eric, Peter and I eating prawns on the pontoon as we dangled our feet in the water, and you watching on with your feet high, in fear of being bitten by a bull shark. I always dreamed of the many adventures we would do, from La Vita… to a trip to the alps in Japan one day. I was literally investigating the possibility of Hakuba when we received the tragic news.
Rest in peace, my dear friend. I love you with all heart and will truly miss you.
Sending much love to you, and all your loved ones you have left in your wake,
Kim xx

Carly Wieland on 29 March, 2024 at 11:02am

Flea
Such a beautiful soul . You were the shining light that lit up every room you walked in
A real stunner with that big smile
You were such an inspiration and the friend we all wanted to have .
A giving , loving and happy mate whom will never be forgotten .
Condolences to her beautiful family and mates . RIP Flea x
Carly Wieland
Ana Carly McTaggart

Lisa Bourke Bennett on 28 March, 2024 at 10:13pm

Sue ,
My kids still call you Mama, 23 and 25 they are now . I called you Mama because you were outstanding as a mum and I watched and copied and did the best I could. Jack , Angus and Arlie will be ok because they had you , not long enough but they still did.

Miss you Mama,

Love Yaya, Ian Oscar and Libby

Jann Dunton on 28 March, 2024 at 6:50pm

A beautiful smile & heart.
A gorgeous mum to Jack Angus & Arlie you 3 were her life she absolutely adored you all
Sue you motivated me with walking & I learned to jog by your side just to keep up with the fast pace you set
A dear neighbour & cherished friend
I lost contact with your Brisbane move but so happy you found a dear partner to love & be loved by
You so deserved to be happy
Fun times with you Sue
You’re now with Jill up there.
Two dear friends taken far to early
Love Jann Sam & Tas ❤️❤️❤️

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